Personal Essays + Op-Eds

Lunch Ticket

Circumference & Circumstance: The Cycle of Food and Insecurity

In “Secrets of a Yogi: Losing & Keeping 40 Pounds Off,” I say that I didn’t lose a single pound without first learning to love myself. This is true to a large extent. […] But I’ve gained 20 pounds since the start of quarantine. […] It’s easy to look at your body with love if you feel like you’re on a path toward a particular beauty standard, but how are you supposed to love yourself if you’re moving away from it? 

Dear White Moderate, Stop Waiting on the World to Change

I was the white moderate. I was sitting back and reaping the benefits of white privilege while my friends and their loved ones struggled to keep their rights.

What a Year of Sobriety Has Taught Me

Today is March 24, 2020: My one-year anniversary of being sober. It’s nine o’clock at night and I’m just now realizing I never thought I would make it this far.

“A Quality, Good Life”: Defining Ableism and What It Means to Be Human

Before I became the marketing director of this day habilitation center, my experience with severe disabilities was limited.

Defenestration Magazine

Tough Love

“I’ve always loved you, Jessica,” I type in the messaging app of my friend’s iPod Touch.  “I won’t let anyone get in the way of our love.” Although Jessica and I did make out once, I’m not in love with her. I’m writing to her under the clever alias “Jason Smith” because my friend, Ceci, and I are bored. The year is 2010, and we’re 19-year-old community college dropouts with only one hobby: baking. And I don’t mean making cookies. When Ceci asked me, “Do you wanna pull a prank on Jessica?” I was eager for a new activity. Plus, Jessica’s an esteemed partier, prone to good vibes and nearly nightly blackouts. If anyone can take a joke, it’s her.

Dallas Yoga Magazine

Secrets of a Yogi: Losing and Keeping 40 Pounds Off

I’m no one in the fitness community. I do not have a personal training certification, a nutritionist license or an Instagram page with 10,000+ followers. I just started yoga teacher training, but I still can’t do crow pose, even though I’ve been working on it for over a year. I rock climb, but I’m terrified of heights, so my progress has been even slower there. But here’s why I’m writing this: I lost 40 pounds in two years, and I’ve kept the weight off for over a year now. This is my fitness journey.

Ten Spurs

If the Good Lord Lets Me in

Mayborn Literary Nonfiction Conference, July 2014
Awarded “Runner Up”

You have to buy the 2015 edition of Ten Spurs to read the full story, but here’s an excerpt:

If the Good Lord Lets Me In Excerpt

Oral Fixation

“Like Riding a Bike”

Season 3, “Ducks in a Row,” April 2014

Forthcoming Works

  • The One with the Failed Gender Ideals: What the Jokes in Friends Tell Us about American Culture (Lady Queer Collective, 2020).

Works to Look Out for

I suspect you’ll have a lot more to read soon! Be on the lookout for personal essays about these things:

  • Meeting my dad for the first time when I was 22
  • An awkward conversation I had with my high school creative writing teacher
  • An affair I had at the ripe age of 17
  • A conversation (or two) with my mom that helped me understand her better
  • Coming out as pansexual
  • Taking a Tinder date to explore an abandoned mansion
  • Getting stuck on a cruise during Hurricane Harvey

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